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Post by sunshine on Feb 23, 2014 21:48:48 GMT -5
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Post by Brynn on Feb 23, 2014 23:48:03 GMT -5
I get the "Well you've never been with a guy so how do you know you're a lesbian?" or "You never know, you may meet the guy of your dreams someday, don't have your mind set/closed off so early" I have no attraction to guys what so ever so that's not happening. I also get from my mom, "You shouldn't be wearing those clothes" (meaning masculine clothing) but that's what I'm comfortable in. Feminine clothes aren't really my thing. I've gotten from a friend of mine that he doesn't understand how lesbians have sex, I just facepalmed.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 24, 2014 3:06:31 GMT -5
I get the "Well you've never been with a guy so how do you know you're a lesbian?" or "You never know, you may meet the guy of your dreams someday, don't have your mind set/closed off so early" I have no attraction to guys what so ever so that's not happening. I also get from my mom, "You shouldn't be wearing those clothes" (meaning masculine clothing) but that's what I'm comfortable in. Feminine clothes aren't really my thing. I've gotten from a friend of mine that he doesn't understand how lesbians have sex, I just facepalmed. Yeah about clothes my mom is always saying that I should change my style and wear more feminine clothes like skirts and high heels etc. It's really annoying just yesterday when I had my hoodie and snapback on she was like ''you're not a boy'' Why can't I just dress like I want and be comfy.. |
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Post by lara on Feb 24, 2014 9:18:36 GMT -5
Yeah about that my mom always ask me to "dress like a girl" but I can't I just hate skirt..
I also get the "you don't look like a lesbian, you're way too feminine" just because I have long hair like what the heck ??!
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Post by Brynn on Feb 24, 2014 11:58:33 GMT -5
I get the "Well you've never been with a guy so how do you know you're a lesbian?" or "You never know, you may meet the guy of your dreams someday, don't have your mind set/closed off so early" I have no attraction to guys what so ever so that's not happening. I also get from my mom, "You shouldn't be wearing those clothes" (meaning masculine clothing) but that's what I'm comfortable in. Feminine clothes aren't really my thing. I've gotten from a friend of mine that he doesn't understand how lesbians have sex, I just facepalmed. Yeah about clothes my mom is always saying that I should change my style and wear more feminine clothes like skirts and high heels etc. It's really annoying just yesterday when I had my hoodie and snapback on she was like ''you're not a boy'' Why can't I just dress like I want and be comfy.. Exactly! I just want to be comfortable, I don't feel like myself in dresses or skirts or high heels like my sister is. I like my pants haha. They try to push me towards more feminine clothing and I'm like, "How 'bout no" and let me go to my comfy clothes section |
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Post by pandasprinkles on Mar 5, 2014 10:01:16 GMT -5
When I was in high school I was accused of being a lesbian frequently because I had absolutely no interest in dating anyone. At the time I had no idea that I was gay and would be annoyed at the thought that just because I had no desire to date anyone I was automatically assumed gay. I would go on rants to my family and friends about it. I think what irritated me most when I started questioning at 21, was that they were right. Like I am happy being gay I was just annoyed that that was the automatic assumption when I was a teenager. It still puts me in a bad mood when I think back on it  |
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Post by singletunepoet on Mar 12, 2014 11:20:15 GMT -5
Same here! EVERYONE kept asking me about why I wasn´t dating anyone. "But there are sooo many nice guys around! I don´t get it. Are you gay?" I actually knew that I´m gay very early on so when people made that assumption I would panic inside because I wasn´t out back then. Yet, looking back on it, I find it very annoying that people would go from "XY is not dating" to "XY must be gay" so soon.
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Post by mandygurl on Apr 19, 2014 8:58:29 GMT -5
I have another one. As a matter of fact, I just heard it the other day. A female coworker told me " all you needs to meet a nice guy". She meant weel but she doesn't get it. I know that there are nice men out there. I don't want one  |
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