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Post by leese on Feb 15, 2014 3:39:15 GMT -5
What lesbian stereotypes do you hate?
Which ones do you get asked about the most?
And which stereotypes/stereotypical lesbian things do you meet/do?
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Post by mandygurl on Feb 15, 2014 7:42:44 GMT -5
The stereotype that I hate most is when I am accused of wanting to be a man. Nothing could be further from the truth. Also, I've been asked if I hate men. I don't. Some people are so narrowminded.
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Post by elliebelly on Feb 15, 2014 22:59:33 GMT -5
I hate the "wow you don't even look/act like one!" thing I get. I'm more feminine and don't look "butch" and act generally pretty girly, so girls especially are always shocked. And they hand it out like compliment that I don't "look" like a lesbian. I also hate that people's immediate reactions is to ask 100000 sex questions when they find out. There are a lot of stereotypes that are super annoying but I haven't had to deal with a lot of them(:
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Post by Niccy on Feb 16, 2014 5:38:44 GMT -5
I get "you don't look gay" all the time..... So I always ask what does it look like?? Get the same response... 'A boy'........ Hmmm
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Post by singletunepoet on Feb 16, 2014 9:56:20 GMT -5
I also get "You don´t look gay at all." and it´s supposed to be a compliment and that´s the part that annoys me about it.
As if they´re saying "Well, at least you look feminine, that way, being gay is fine with me."
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Post by justsamma on Feb 16, 2014 18:14:35 GMT -5
i used to get the "you don't even look gay" before I dreaded my hair. Now I get "you're gay? i should have known, with those dreads"
i hate the "which one of you is the man" thing. UGH.
Oh & the "you just have penis envy." Really? because i have several, most bigger than you and some even glow in the dark. I think the issue here is that I have better penises than you & you don't like it.
Then comes the assumption that because i am a lady lover i must think EVERYSINGLEWOMAN is ZHOMG SO SEXXXXXY and want to scissor their timbers allthetime. No. NO. Just NO!
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Post by Nessa on Feb 17, 2014 2:09:11 GMT -5
The typical things are: "OMG! You are gay? You don't look like it!" "So you are gay? Does that mean you're into me?" "Since you are so feminin, you have to find a butch lezzie now, right?" .... no. Just ... NO!
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Post by Niccy on Feb 17, 2014 2:20:15 GMT -5
i used to get the "you don't even look gay" before I dreaded my hair. Now I get "you're gay? i should have known, with those dreads" i hate the "which one of you is the man" thing. UGH. Oh & the "you just have penis envy." Really? because i have several, most bigger than you and some even glow in the dark. I think the issue here is that I have better penises than you & you don't like it. Then comes the assumption that because i am a lady lover i must think EVERYSINGLEWOMAN is ZHOMG SO SEXXXXXY and want to scissor their timbers allthetime. No. NO. Just NO! common assumption there.. that u perv on every girl…. everyone should be paranoid then, straight people perving on each other, gay people perving on each other…. LOOK OUT EVERYONE SOMEONE IS OGLING AT U!!! get a life people…. |
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Post by AwesomeEndsInMe on Feb 17, 2014 3:00:38 GMT -5
I hate when girls think Im hitting on them just by talking to them. Or that I can fix things, or know everything about sports.
Its not really a Stereotype, but I HATE when people say "Well, how does sex work?" Like, really?
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Post by babydollxox1 on Feb 18, 2014 3:25:42 GMT -5
I think the worst one I've gotten is, you're too pretty to be a lesbian you need to be with a man so you can have pretty babies. Pftt who says my babies ain't gonna be cute with a woman.
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Post by singletunepoet on Feb 18, 2014 3:37:18 GMT -5
A couple of days before our wedding my wife and I headed out with friends for our bachelorette party which, yes, we did together...in a karaoke bar singing Spice Girls songs...anyway, what did I want to say?
Right, so there were these guys asking about the wedding: "You´re both getting married on the same day?!" - "Yes, that´s what happens when you get marry to each other!" - "Each other? Oh, how cute. You haven´t found the right man yet and that´s why you´re marrying your friend!"
Seriously?
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Post by Nessa on Feb 18, 2014 12:47:30 GMT -5
A couple of days before our wedding my wife and I headed out with friends for our bachelorette party which, yes, we did together...in a karaoke bar singing Spice Girls songs...anyway, what did I want to say? Right, so there were these guys asking about the wedding: "You´re both getting married on the same day?!" - "Yes, that´s what happens when you get marry to each other!" - "Each other? Oh, how cute. You haven´t found the right man yet and that´s why you´re marrying your friend!" Seriously? What the actual fuck? Seriously? The nerve of some people! |
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Post by lara on Feb 18, 2014 16:25:20 GMT -5
The worst is when women ask me to warn them if I fall in love with them. Like yeah I love every woman I see and sure I tell them all !!
Also, there is THE question "how do you know you're gay" . But now it makes me laugh because I answer them "ho do you know you're straight" and they just don't know what to say
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Post by Niccy on Feb 18, 2014 17:40:42 GMT -5
So many guys say it's because you haven't met the right man yet!! It's stupid.... They just want to believe that they can make any girl want them
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Post by babydollxox1 on Feb 18, 2014 22:42:57 GMT -5
So many guys say it's because you haven't met the right man yet!! It's stupid.... They just want to believe that they can make any girl want them I've gotten that one too. That or a 'Maybe I can change you're mind' thing. (puke)no thanks. |
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Post by Niccy on Feb 19, 2014 4:01:58 GMT -5
So many guys say it's because you haven't met the right man yet!! It's stupid.... They just want to believe that they can make any girl want them I've gotten that one too. That or a 'Maybe I can change you're mind' thing. (puke)no thanks. lol definitely a hell no haha especially with that attitude hehe |
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Post by Deleted on Feb 21, 2014 7:29:21 GMT -5
For me it was when this one guy was trying to get me sleep with him and he asked me: well have you ever been with a guy? and asked a couple of weeks later: are you still gay? like what do they think I just macigally turn straight just to have sex with you?
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Post by elliebelly on Feb 22, 2014 22:33:20 GMT -5
For me it was when this one guy was trying to get me sleep with him and he asked me: well have you ever been with a guy? and asked a couple of weeks later: are you still gay? like what do they think I just macigally turn straight just to have sex with you? omg yesss, theres one dude who i told was gay and he asked "not even a little bi?". i never answered and a few weeks later he's asking to chill again, like what don't you get? |
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Post by Deleted on Feb 23, 2014 6:02:18 GMT -5
For me it was when this one guy was trying to get me sleep with him and he asked me: well have you ever been with a guy? and asked a couple of weeks later: are you still gay? like what do they think I just macigally turn straight just to have sex with you? omg yesss, theres one dude who i told was gay and he asked "not even a little bi?". i never answered and a few weeks later he's asking to chill again, like what don't you get? Gosh that's annoying.. |
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Post by Niccy on Feb 23, 2014 18:28:25 GMT -5
Ugh! Boys suck lol
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